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Distract, Delegate, Defer and Direct Your Way to Safer Bars and Public Spaces
New Video Series Demonstrates Simple and Safe Bystander Intervention Techniques Interested in preventing creeps from creeping? We sure are, and we hope you are, too. Yet, when witnessing a troubling or uncomfortable situation, it can be difficult to react immediately...

Top 5 Videos of 2018
One year. More than 50 new videos. Picking a favorite seems like an impossible task. Never fear, we watched them ALL on YouTUbe, and picked the top 5 videos from 2018. We're excited to share them with you in this 2018 wrap-up post. Re-live your favorite 2018 moments...

How to Support Survivors on Denim Day
Tomorrow (April 25) is Denim Day, a day that any student, employee or community member can wear jeans to show their support for survivors of sexual abuse or assault. That's why The Uncomfortable Conversation partnered up with Denim Day NYC to create a new video series...

What about the villains?
We sure do love our villains. Maybe that’s why we spend so much time talking about and calling out perpetrators – or potential perpetrators – of sexual harassment and violence. We write blog posts to them and about them. We break down and rehash their actions and...
Supporting Assault Victims Doesn’t Mean Seeking Revenge
This video spoke to me. As a young man heard word of his cousin’s sexual assault, his immediate reaction is that of violence, anger, and retribution. Sometimes though, for a victim, revenge and retribution isn’t the first thing on their mind. As a young man who has...